I received a message around 1 pm Saturday that one of our teacher's moms had died Saturday morning. The funeral procedures were to begin Saturday evening (fast, I know). I actually bought some fruit and veggies from her mom on a few occasions since they live in the area.
I was amazed at how fast they do this funeral process. The big difference is that the event itself lasts for about three-six days. For folks in the country it takes much longer. As part of the process the group that is coming at a certain time goes in together while the family of the deceased says a little chant. I went in with the women from work, and we all bowed once to the alter area for the mom, and then bowed to the family. In a room nearby we ate a light meal and chatted with our teacher for a little bit. She's been there at the hospital from Saturday to at least yesterday. People come in and out at different periods of time throughout the few days. The body is not in the room, at least.
Also, just like with weddings, and first birthdays, you give money to the family. I gave them thirty bucks, which I usually do at weddings as my own little custom. The hard part was seeing how emotional my co-workers were. One of them ran out to me and gave me a hug as she was waiting for me, so we could walk to the building together.
Anyway, it was a sad event, but I'm thankful to have witnessed it for the experience though.
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